Keeping my culture close and not forgetting about it can be hard while achieving the American dream. Growing up in a household with immigrant parents helped me realize the importance of having a chance to reach a dream they’ve always wanted. Coming into a whole new country with a totally different culture can be difficult to adapt to. Our ethnicity, gender, and availability of education take a big part in the American dream. Me, who grew up in America, I already have an advantage compared to my parents who came freshly and don’t even know the English language. The American dream relies on the beliefs of equal rights and opportunities for everyone, although other factors come into play. 

For instance, Stanford economist Raj chetty states that, communities with less racial/economic segregation, better schools, more income equality, more social capital, and with two parent families have a better opportunity for the American dream. Both my parents had a different level of education, allowing my dad to have a better paying job as he graduated high school. On the other hand, my mom who came alone with no help at all may have not got the opportunity for higher education but, exploring and getting to know the difference in cultures helped her out by feeling more comfortable and included. The struggles economically really challenged my parents in order to keep our family well.     

The diverse cultures of the United States, whether it is our hard work, determination, and having a sense of guidance towards our desires. The dream of having freedom and success in a place we can call home, is what my parents came for. Thomas W. Raskay explains how the American dream can be portrayed in our unique ways and make it our own culture. Our culture plays a big role in shaping and setting our futures. Letting go of all the racial prejudices, the gender norms, stereotypes, and having more equitable resources for the American Dream. Giving the chance not only for my parents but to many other people who come from different cultures willing to open up towards other cultures, in order to have a chance. 

Not everyone believes in the American Dream, only 36% of Americans believe that it still holds true to this day. The thought of the American dream can be different for everyone. My parents both have different opinions on whether they’ve achieved it or not. For example, it can be the success and having wealth and status or the building of relationships, well being, and engaging with those around you who are not family. But my parents always taught me that wealth was not the happiness, it was the fulfillment within myself and what helps in the long run. Don;t just focus on the money, focus on how you can help others and helping ourselves will be a better success.