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Why are boys so confusing?
Why do boys always go for the pretty girls? They have to have the blonde hair and blue eyes! But what about the girls with dark hair and green eyes? Aren't they pretty too? Boys always go for the pretty girls, they want to look popular with those girls and be considered cool cause they go out with the "cute" girls! What's so cute about a ton of blonde cheerleaders thinking they're better then everyone else? In all the movies the blonde cheerleader has the guy at the beginning but then, in the end, the brunette get's him. Why can't it be like that in reality? Boys are so confusing. One moment they are together with the geeky girl, the next moment they are dancing at prom with a cheerleader. Why can't the girls that make sense and are beautiful in there own way be loved. Why are boys so cute, yet so hard.
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Sorry, but I disagree.
First of all, maybe it's just me, but I'd preferr a woman with darker hair. But that doesn't matter, what matters is who the girl is, i.e. personality.
Secondly, although some men are shallow, not all are.
Finally, women can be just as shallow as men, of course not all women are shallow. But simply for the fact that I'm "unique" and I have possibly every culture in Europe and West Asia running in my genetics, most women seem to avoid me. Maybe it's just me but the fact that the girl I've been admiring for 3-4 years rejects me really is starting to mess with my head.
I'm sorry if you have felt similar pain, and I hope you don't overlook your special someone.
okay , i feel like im soooo aloneeeeeeeee !
guys in my school only like the thick girls with big b**bs and butts . they dont care if there ugly , if they just gotta have the curves .
me ? i dont have an curvess and idk if im beautiful , i dont feel that way . but now they dont go for the blonde and blue eyed cheerleaders unless theyy havee a hugee a** or bog breasts .
i understand hormones , but what hapened to actually looking at the girls face once in a while ?
and im not trying to be stereotypical , but all the sl**s in my school are notttt thinn and arent beautiful at all , ouutside or in
i think what makes a girl beautiful is her personality , and when a girls a big sl*** , then shes not beautiful to me at all .
i get why guys like thse kinda girls , but whatever happened to the skinny , beautiful , nice , and smart girls ?
While I understand the thoughts you're trying to convey, on some points I strongly disagree. I think that the whole 'blond-haired blue-eyed being the most beautiful' thing is a stereotype.
I prefer brown-haired girls in most instances, and that's still personal preference, but to me it doesn't seem like guys only go for the blondes. The majority of the cheerleaders and popular girls at my school have brown hair. Also cheerleader =/= popular. Cheerleading isn't always a whorish 'sport,' some people actually enjoy it. Personally, I think it is sort of demeaning in a way, but a lot of girls do it just for the fun of it.
Boys don't only go for blond-haired, blue-eyed girls. Sorry to be so 'mean,' but please stop feeling sorry for yourself and blaming everyone else for your confusion and misery.
1) It really does depend on the guy. I'm Filipina and I have brunette hair and brown eyes. The guys I've gone for and have gone out with, even my friends, don't even go for blonde girls. They like the Asian girls, like myself. So, it's the guy's preference.
2) Not all cheerleaders are blonde with blue eyes. I'm an "ex-cheerleader". I was good at the sport, but it just wasn't my interest. Now, I skateboard and breakdance. This proves that not all cheerleaders are stuck up and ditzy. There are also plenty of girls who are ditzy that aren't cheerleaders.
3) In the end, guys know that there are girls for fun and girls for serious. (This is what I've learned from my dad who gives me advice so I never get played by guys). At this age, a very large amount of guys want to just fool around and get as many girls to look cool. But, at the end of the day, they would never marry a girl that has no sense (doesn't necessarily have to be blonde). Their families would never approve and guys don't like girls that can't even think for themselves. Super dependent girls are so unattractive, no matter how physically attractive they are.
4) Beauty is so NOT based on someone's hair color and eye color. Does that mean that only caucasion, blonde, blue eyed girls are beautiful? DEFINATELY NOT. Lots of guys like exotic beauty.
Thus, it all is based on the preference of the guy. If you feel that you're being ignored by someone you like and you think it's because of your looks, STOP THINKING THAT WAY and find someone who will appreciate you for you...not someone who's just in it for the status and "blonde hair and blue eyes".
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your really nice....Lol i like what you said in you comement there should be other guys that are like you:)
