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Gay, Lesbian, bi relationships are okay!!

September 20, 2009
By ~luckydutchess~ BRONZE, Keywest, Florida
~luckydutchess~ BRONZE, Keywest, Florida
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Favorite Quote:
"One day there will be a chance that you will say that you love one person and really mean it, but every day one person is at least loving you now." - Me


I don't understand why most people in the world don't like people of the same sex to be in a relationship. I'm bisexual myself and people come up to me and start critizing me because i am, but they dont understand that I'm special in my own way just like other ppl, no matter who they are.

Where I live the main population is gay, lesbian and bi people. In front of my school there are even people writing signs saying "God hates America and Fags are not welcomed here!" I am getting so sick of it! This is making us not want to come out and actually be us.

The government has no right to make laws saying that gays can not be married. God and government does not mix people! Get it straight! Some of yur friends might actually be gay, lesbian or bi, and would u not be there friend because of it? If you would, then you are messed up and not worthy of their friendship.



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on Oct. 27 2012 at 4:17 pm
awaitingHisreturn SILVER, Rushville, New York
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Favorite Quote:
Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs even though checkered by failure, than to remain with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat

The Old Testament shows us why we need salvation (we couldn't get to heaven on our own) and the New Testament shows us how we can recieve salvation, and how to live once we have it. Christians are called to love as Jesus loved, and Jesus hung out with sinners. That doesn't mean that what they were doing was okay. Christ did not endorse their sin, but He loved them in spite of it, and until they breathed their last, he was always there, offering them everlasting life and unconditional love if only they would believe that He was who he said he was- God's Son- and turn away from their sins. Does that make sense?

on Oct. 27 2012 at 3:57 pm
awaitingHisreturn SILVER, Rushville, New York
9 articles 1 photo 12 comments

Favorite Quote:
Far better it is to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs even though checkered by failure, than to remain with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat

Back in the old testament, God gave the people the law simply to make them aware of their sins(Romans 3:20)  When Christ died to take the punishment for our sins, God was showing grace to us, and our goal in life became simply to glorify Him in everything, and to put Him first in our hearts.Therefore we are no longer under the law, but under grace (Romans 6:14) However, the Bible specifically says in several places that God hates homosexualty. One of the most explicit references is 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, and yes, it IS in the new testament, which still applies to Christians today. Without the Old Testament, the New Testament would have less of an impact because we wouldn't know the whole story.  So yes, God hates homosextuality, but he also loves homosexuals...ever heard the phrase 'hate the sin but love the sinner'? Jesus died for homosexuals, but unless they choose to except that gift of salvation and turn from their sin, His death will be worthless to them. The gift is there waiting for them, but most of them choose not to reach out and take it.

on Oct. 27 2012 at 11:36 am
City_Of_Angels PLATINUM, West Des Moines, Iowa
25 articles 1 photo 31 comments
I don't understand that either. I'm Bi as well and it hurts to know that i can't really come out anywhere. It makes me think that i was never meant to be here.

Lizzy said...
on Oct. 23 2012 at 11:32 am
I'm glad that you are courageous enough to post stuff like this, this topic cannot be avoided. I've been questioning wether I'm straight or bi, and I'm Christian. I've been so lucky to have great parents and friends who are indifferent as to whether or not I'm straight. I believe that God made it so that people are straight, bi, gay, or lesbian. God loves everyone, and he makes no mistakes. You are not a mistake.

briana78 said...
on Oct. 11 2012 at 2:37 pm
i like this article and i feel the same and im completely straight .A lot of my freinds are lesbian and i support them 100%

alepinklover said...
on Oct. 11 2012 at 2:27 pm
I believe in equality and i think if people are in love then they should be together so they could be happy no matter what sex they are.

Naylee said...
on Oct. 8 2012 at 4:28 pm
Naylee, Bridgetown, Other
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Favorite Quote:
Everybody makes mistakes, That's why pencils are made with erasers. <3

I think that humans were not made to be gay because think about it if  everyone was gay  and slept with people the same sex how would babies be made?? Woman with woman= No Baby Man with man= No Baby!! So there's evidence that it isnt made to be this way but however people choose to live that way and it is their choice, God gave them a choice and they chose to be gay   they will find out if it is wrong when they die and the life after death begins but anyways love them still dont stand for what they stand for but love them they are human! They deserve freedom like we do.  PS Im Christian and I dont agree with what they stand for but I love them just like I love myself and we are all on equal scale!

I ma BO$$ said...
on Oct. 2 2012 at 12:18 pm
I dont know why would she write this.

Pickles_1800 said...
on Sep. 11 2012 at 8:29 pm
I completely agree with you. I mean at my schoolI have't had any problems. And I think thats real messed up how people wanna be cool with you and claim how they are your friend then wanna switch up, distance themself, or make a big'o deal out of it. I believe it is extremely imature for people to call others those types of names, as if they have nothing better to do with their lives. As I see it better to come out to my peers, it's a different story for elders.. Most are just stuck in the past and how things "Should be". I don't understand..

on Jul. 21 2012 at 9:53 pm
cyberunfamous SILVER, Melbourne, Florida
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Favorite Quote:
Shutting your eyes and pretending something isn't happening doesn't make it not true.

Thank you for writing this article! You're totally right too. My best friend whom I've know since we were is fgirst grade is lesbian, and I hate it when she tells me about getting dirty looks. She's human too people! My personal opinion is that God doesn't make mistakes, so it's fine if you are gay, lesbian, bisexual, or pansexual. It doesn't MATTER. You're a person with a heart too, so you shouldn't be treated differently. Again, thank you!

on Jun. 25 2012 at 10:56 am
BlueRain BRONZE, Clarkston, Michigan
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Favorite Quote:
"Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you was beyond my control."

Why is it wrong? Because your book says so? Have you ever gotten a hair cut, eaten shellfish, or worn polyester? 

on Jun. 22 2012 at 10:27 am
aspiringauthor_ BRONZE, Fairfield, Connecticut
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Favorite Quote:
"Darkness cannot drive out darkness, only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate, only love can do that." - MLK Jr.

I personally don't know, but your comment literally made me laugh out loud. It's so true! :) Thanks for making my day.

Gwgideon GOLD said...
on Jun. 6 2012 at 6:35 pm
Gwgideon GOLD, Commerce Twp, Michigan
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I'm Christian and I believe homosexuality is wrong. I understand you guys have your own opinions. However, I do hate it as well when people hate gays. They are human, and Jesus died on the cross for them. I hate it when people forget that. 

on Jun. 4 2012 at 8:24 pm
wind_andthe_rainy PLATINUM, San Francisco, California
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i really admire you by being able to disagree with something, yet still respect it. Thank you

Obeyydiamond said...
on May. 25 2012 at 3:49 pm
Obeyydiamond, Escondido, California
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Favorite Quote:
"aa lott off girlss fal inn lovee withh thee wrongg guyss, simplyy becausee thee wrongg guyss sayy thee rightt thingss;OVOXO"

i hate it when people jugde one another and supposably they are nice people that dont jugde other just stfu i swear im bi and im proud i dont judge other i just say the truth and well im happy with my gf we have 4 monther sand going for more love my babe c;!!

on Apr. 27 2012 at 9:15 am
ArmyChick SILVER, Lake Park, Florida
7 articles 0 photos 18 comments

Favorite Quote:
*Live like its your last day,*People say practice makes perfect, but then they say there is no such thing as perfect, thats why i stopped practicing,*silly boys trucks are for girls,*you dont want to get to your distination and not remember the trip.

well i dont mind it at all. its natrual for me to be around. two of my best friends are bi and it doesnt bother me at all.

blingy2 said...
on Apr. 24 2012 at 2:28 pm
your right i know a cuople people who are and some are my friends

on Apr. 17 2012 at 11:49 am
i_am_so_very_large_and_towering SILVER, Mililani, Hawaii
5 articles 1 photo 114 comments

Favorite Quote:
"Yet what is any ocean but a multitude of drops?"

good for you! i'm straight but hate how homophobic everyone is these days. love is love:)

on Apr. 6 2012 at 10:14 pm
selenafan1 BRONZE, Freeport, Texas
2 articles 0 photos 27 comments

Favorite Quote:
&quot; Friendship is like peeing your pants, everyone can see it but only you can feel it&#039;s warmth&quot;<br /> &quot;Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius, and it is better to be absolutley ridiculous than absolutley boring&quot;-Marilyn Monroe

I personally think that gay marriage isn't the way life is supposed to be because same sex marriage is the way it is supposed to be. But if you happen to be that way I'm not going to discriminate you for it because it isn't right and none of my business who your with.

on Apr. 6 2012 at 10:56 am
chloejane SILVER, Gatton Australia, Other
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Favorite Quote:
You don&#039;t love someone because they&#039;re perfect, you love them in spite of the fact that they&#039;re not.&rdquo; <br /> ― Jodi Picoult, My Sister&#039;s Keeper

so what your gay or bi your human and that is all i care about i dont beleive in god and no one is going to tell me that being gay is wrong its not you cant help who you like my uncle and one of my close friends are gay both of them have found some one and i am truly happy that they are happy

if you are proud to be gay or bi then good for you and if people pick on you because your different just know your special in your own little way