You don't get to decide who your family is, and you don't pick your friends... you definitely don't get to choose who you fall in love with. Destiny decides all of this for you. There are absolutely no coincidences in the world. Everything happens for a reason. Don't try to hold on to someone who walks out of your life. There is a reason why fate doesn't let them remain in your life. don't slow down life and don't let it slow you down either. Life is too short to sit in despair. Live you life to its absolute fullest and NEVER settle for less. Your life (in my beliefs)is preplanned before your soul even enters Earth's atmosphere. Don't try to change it. There is no such thing as YOUR life or MY life, everyone affects each other. No matter what...we are all living ONE life here on Earth. Love it or hate it, it's never going to change. Believe it or not.