I think the thing about love or relationships is that people don't understand that it can happen to anyone. No matter the age or how smart they are. That 5th grade 'crush' you had could be your husband in a couple years. My opinion though is that everyone is to obsessed with the idea of perfect love. They have to be a certain age, do certain things, or understand it more. Us teens are more mature than you believe us to be. We understand the feelings of hate, sadness, and love. Love is not the kissing or cute dates. It's about understanding someone in a way that no one can relate to. It's someone who you would take a shot for. Some opinions will be different, but as long as I have my love then I know I'm right.