I won't deny it. I am one of those miserable youtube freaks. I binge watch videos made by cheesy teenage youtubers on how to get a guy to like you. With a couple years of repeating this process, I am more than confident to tell you that I am an expert in realtionships.(except for mine) 

" I like girls with great smiles"

" Girls who are confident turn me on"

This is the advice that youtubers give me. Cheesy, fake, cliche. I know you've been searching for the same similar things. I know you've been craving for the right answer.

So here's my naked and bare, totally true advice. This is what I've learned from sixteen years of my exhausting love life. This is how to get a girl to like you.  The disturbing truth is that girls like guys that are 'hot' period. "Hot" means everything. To the girl in my school with a short uniform skirt it means a nice body, a sexy personality and a cute face. To Liz it means someone nice and sincere with broad shoulders. To me it's someone who knows how to be a real friend before they decide to be my boyfriend.(with a slight touch of muscular arms) The truth is that we all have our 'types' and 'standards' of people we find attractive. But a funny phenomenon I found was that people don't end up dating their 'ideal' types. Just look at the couples around you. Yes, some may be supermodel hot. But the majority of people are just normal. Which is living proof that physical looks aren't a top priority. In the end, we all want someone to lean on, to trust, to be totally honest with. If you only care about looks, go and date a mannequin. The first step in getting a girl to like you is finding a girl that is worth the time and effort. Fix your definition of "HOT". Find someone whose defintion of "hot" is someone worth being. Then and only then you will be able to experience a totally different tingly feeling of being attracted to someone.