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By Anonymous

I have a magnet on my mirror stating, “Life is not about finding yourself – life is about creating yourself.” This is the statement I live by.

Many people do not believe me when I say I am an atheist. They don’t understand that I simply do not believe in any sort of god or afterlife. I also do not believe in the devil, in angels, or in souls. I believe in myself and the strength I have gained through the help of my parents, teachers, and friends – and my own hard work.

I am not going to try to dissuade anyone from his or her own opinions either. I know that people enjoy having religion in their lives; some need their faith to help them through hard times. And some do not want the responsibility of their misfortunes weighing down on their shoulders.

I do. I abhor the idea of fate – that everything is already planned out and you have no control to change anything. If you believe in fate, when bad things happen, it is not your fault; it’s just fate. When my life is not going well, I know that it is no one’s fault but my own. When I do well in school, when I fall in love, it is not fate and we are not soul mates. I worked hard and paid attention and did the homework. My love and I simply love each other – that is all it is, and for me that is all it needs to be.

For some, life is overwhelming. How can anyone be successful and happy in such a difficult, horrible world? They need someone to help them, someone to guide them, and someone to have faith in to make sure things get better. Placing my success and happiness in another’s hands breaks my heart. I need to be successful because of my efforts. I must be responsible for my own happiness. That is what I need from my religion.

Who will ever know what the truth really is? All I know is in the same way that some have full faith and trust in God to give them hope, I need to believe I am on my own to be truly happy – for how can I create myself if I spend my entire life just looking?

© Anonymous

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EpsteinIsland said...
on Feb. 7 at 11:19 am
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I'm going to tickle your rear.
WolfGurl PLATINUM said...
on Dec. 9 2021 at 4:44 pm
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I may not agree but you did a GREAT job explaining your option and using logic.
dinooo BRONZE said...
on Nov. 18 2020 at 10:07 am
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You don't have to look. Put your trust in God, and he will find you.
HRC said...
on May. 17 2020 at 3:49 pm
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I am afraid society has labeled religion as a "hypothesis" lately. I believe Christianity, yes, because my loving Lord has found me, but also because of the overwhelming evidence, truth, and proof for it. So, this perhaps is most effective to ask you, dear Sarah:

What if Christianity is true? What is the overwhelming evidence for Christ's death and resurrection, are true? What if God knows you in your skepticism and your speaking against Him?

You might as well ask, what if it is not—but if one knows anything about gambling, then you know that if you have nothing to lose on the one side and everything to lose on the other, the choice is clear.
SolInvictus76 said...
on Jan. 14 2020 at 9:56 am
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I believe that Faith and Science go hand in hand. I also believe that God gave Science to further explain our universe. I just can't believe that "two rocks collided and *BOOM* Here we are." There are many theories, but that is just what most of them are: theories. That's what most of them will ever be. I know that matter can't be created out of thin air, but I also know that matter can be created from energy and vice versa. This is the only theory that makes ultimate sense, at least to me.
SolInvictus76 said...
on Jan. 14 2020 at 9:47 am
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Do you believe in good and evil? Without a supreme being to decide what is right and wrong, or moral and immoral, their is no ideal, and all choices are considered "equal." Plus, if God does not give us our rights, then who does? If it is our government, then our government can just as easily take them away.
Arti.M BRONZE said...
on Feb. 23 2017 at 4:53 pm
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Awesome job on your explanations.
deepthi SILVER said...
on May. 1 2015 at 10:13 am
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awesome work sara. Being an athiest i agree with all your points and i find everything what i thought to write in this article. hands off.keep writing these kinds of articles.
KandiceMichelle PLATINUM said...
on May. 14 2014 at 12:39 pm
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I can't say I agree with you, but you did an awesome job of explaining yourself and making your points :)
cosmos4242 GOLD said...
on Apr. 3 2014 at 4:45 pm
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  This example I am about to provide is something I read about a while ago, and so I would encourage you to check it out yourself if you're interested, as I might be wrong or somewhat off.  But here goes- often in older scientific papers (say Newton's-this is the example I remember reading about,) the author will go on explaining whatever they're explaining, (say, gravity,) in technical detail and all is well.  But once they reach a point where their research was inconclusive, or they lacked futher knowledge, things started to get theological.  They would attribute phenomena they didn't understand to a god/gods.   So sure, we don't quite know how everything works, but that's no reason to say we never will and that it's beyond our understanding.  It's no reason, from a purely scientific standpoint, to assume it must be an act of a deity. Because eventually, people did gain a more comprehensive knowledge of physics.  And science in general.  Now we fly into space, cure disease, and predict fatal weather conditions. We might have graduated from falling apples to a coveted "theory of everything," (right now poeple are placing their bets on string theory,) but the story remains the same.  
cosmos4242 GOLD said...
on Apr. 3 2014 at 4:30 pm
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  Sam38 made a similar comment to this on page 1.  I agree with what you are saying, and I think the author was really just trying to relate that atheism functions in her life the way religion/spirituality does in the lives of others.  It is her system of living her life.
cosmos4242 GOLD said...
on Apr. 3 2014 at 4:24 pm
cosmos4242 GOLD, Bethel Park, Pennsylvania
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Sam38 is technically right.  Well sort of. Labels oh labels... I would argue that the defintion of agnostic (negative) atheism is what Sam38 stated, while gnostic (positive atheism) is the conviction that there is no higher power, God, Ganesh, FSM.  Slight shades of difference.  One is lack of conviction while the other is a conviction.  ( i hesitate to say belief.) However, I don't think this is what the author was going for!  I think she was only emphasizing that atheism functions in a similar way to how a belief system can, as a system of living one's life.
GuitarGirl547 said...
on Feb. 5 2014 at 2:41 pm
Just because you guys are on this topic, I actually believe somewhat in fate but free will does play a part in your life.  I am a Baptist, and I believe God has planned your life's major events.  He knows when you'll accept his Son as your Savior, who you'll marry, things like that.  However your free will and choices you make may affect his plan.
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on Jan. 20 2014 at 2:16 am
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I understand that you like to believe in yourself, and your accomplishments, but do you understand that you must have come from somewhere? Who created you? Who created the universe that we live in? Who created the very atoms that make us?
EmmaLou35 said...
on Jan. 15 2014 at 11:20 pm
Very well written! I know that you don't, believe this, but the God i know loves you very much. So much more than anyone or anything in this Earth has to offer.
rayvone21 BRONZE said...
on Dec. 8 2013 at 9:07 pm
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This is only deep from ONE'S POV, but over all not feeling this . . . AT ALL   
ninja-artist BRONZE said...
on Sep. 16 2013 at 8:36 am
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VERY well writen! I do not agree with it, but still, well writen.
Niquel said...
on Jun. 20 2013 at 10:33 am
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I don't think that it's fair that everyone is bashing on the author for her beliefs. She very clearly expressed that she respects people of all other religions for their faiths, so everyone please, calm down, and provide her with some respect as well. The word "athiest" does not equal lesser human being. I think this essay was very well written, and I agree with what she says. Good job, Sarah. Don't let a bunch of haters tromp all over you for your beliefs.
LittleDreamer BRONZE said...
on Jun. 8 2013 at 11:37 am
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He believes in a 'cosmic majesty', not god. Just saying.
monochromatic BRONZE said...
on Mar. 31 2013 at 9:52 pm
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I love the qoute in the first paragraph. however, I disagree with your reasoning throughout therest of the piece. assuming that their is no God, Deity, or some greater power, how did the universe come to exist? Pure chance cannot come close to explaining the complexity of anything that exists today. also, if nobody has a soul - if there is no life after death, what is the purpose of creating yourself? why work to be succesful instead of just enjoying yourself? what's the point?