I have seen children I grew up with trade their cleats and jerseys for high heels and dresses, and I have always wondered, who made that decision for them to change themselves. Was it the crushing blows of society, or was it the human inside them that truly wanted to do this? There is nothing wrong with high heels or dresses, I like to wear them myself, but I have always worn them and still have a wide variety of clothing in my closet, while I see these kids only wearing the latest fashions. Maybe it was by their own free will, but something tells me it wasn't. Should we all have to be hammered by the river? I want you to do one thing for me, look deep into your soul and ask it, is this the life you want to be living, or a life someone else wants you to live? What you do with the information you find is your decision, but I hope you learned something about yourself today.