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My Religion MAG
I have a magnet on my mirror stating, “Life is not about finding yourself – life is about creating yourself.” This is the statement I live by.
Many people do not believe me when I say I am an atheist. They don’t understand that I simply do not believe in any sort of god or afterlife. I also do not believe in the devil, in angels, or in souls. I believe in myself and the strength I have gained through the help of my parents, teachers, and friends – and my own hard work.
I am not going to try to dissuade anyone from his or her own opinions either. I know that people enjoy having religion in their lives; some need their faith to help them through hard times. And some do not want the responsibility of their misfortunes weighing down on their shoulders.
I do. I abhor the idea of fate – that everything is already planned out and you have no control to change anything. If you believe in fate, when bad things happen, it is not your fault; it’s just fate. When my life is not going well, I know that it is no one’s fault but my own. When I do well in school, when I fall in love, it is not fate and we are not soul mates. I worked hard and paid attention and did the homework. My love and I simply love each other – that is all it is, and for me that is all it needs to be.
For some, life is overwhelming. How can anyone be successful and happy in such a difficult, horrible world? They need someone to help them, someone to guide them, and someone to have faith in to make sure things get better. Placing my success and happiness in another’s hands breaks my heart. I need to be successful because of my efforts. I must be responsible for my own happiness. That is what I need from my religion.
Who will ever know what the truth really is? All I know is in the same way that some have full faith and trust in God to give them hope, I need to believe I am on my own to be truly happy – for how can I create myself if I spend my entire life just looking?
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There is the same amount of proof for a large pink rabit living on the moon as there is for a God. It is rational to only believe what there is proof for. Otherwise, we might as well believe in the Moon Rabbit. There is no proof for an existence of God. A feeling, a hunh, an assumption is not proof. Until I am shown proof, I cannot believe in a higher power.
And please, spare me the comments that I have to search in my soul or reach out to God. If God wants to be known, he'll get off the couch and send me a postcard.
This article is sooooooooooo good! Deserves to be in the mag. I can relate to what you said. I'm an atheist, too. The word atheist sounds rather harsh, though. It's the long a sound, I think. I prefer saying that I'm nonreligious. Same thing almost.
I love the title of your article. An atheist's belief is not having a belief! Makes sense. I think that religious people don't quite understand that. They might look at us as lost souls. But we have just as definite ideas on things as they do.
Thanks for writing this! More articles like this one should be written!
I agree with you, Dragonscribe. He could have ordained everything, our lives could be run by fate alone, we could all be automatons having no free will, forced to love and follow Him, but He loves us so much that He lets us choose how we want to live, choose to believe in Him, choose not to, even.
-Lilac
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