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By Anonymous

I have a magnet on my mirror stating, “Life is not about finding yourself – life is about creating yourself.” This is the statement I live by.

Many people do not believe me when I say I am an atheist. They don’t understand that I simply do not believe in any sort of god or afterlife. I also do not believe in the devil, in angels, or in souls. I believe in myself and the strength I have gained through the help of my parents, teachers, and friends – and my own hard work.

I am not going to try to dissuade anyone from his or her own opinions either. I know that people enjoy having religion in their lives; some need their faith to help them through hard times. And some do not want the responsibility of their misfortunes weighing down on their shoulders.

I do. I abhor the idea of fate – that everything is already planned out and you have no control to change anything. If you believe in fate, when bad things happen, it is not your fault; it’s just fate. When my life is not going well, I know that it is no one’s fault but my own. When I do well in school, when I fall in love, it is not fate and we are not soul mates. I worked hard and paid attention and did the homework. My love and I simply love each other – that is all it is, and for me that is all it needs to be.

For some, life is overwhelming. How can anyone be successful and happy in such a difficult, horrible world? They need someone to help them, someone to guide them, and someone to have faith in to make sure things get better. Placing my success and happiness in another’s hands breaks my heart. I need to be successful because of my efforts. I must be responsible for my own happiness. That is what I need from my religion.

Who will ever know what the truth really is? All I know is in the same way that some have full faith and trust in God to give them hope, I need to believe I am on my own to be truly happy – for how can I create myself if I spend my entire life just looking?



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on Oct. 28 2010 at 6:24 pm
AgnotTheOdd GOLD, Aptos, California
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Favorite Quote:
"The reason for your unreasonable treatment of my reason so enfeebles my reason that I have reason to complain of your reason" ~ Miguel de Cervantes Saavedra

Again, read Stephen Hawking's books.  They should enlighten you as the how the universe can come from "nothing".

Plus I know many happy agnostics, atheists, hindus, buddhists, and even a scientologist.  You don't need faith to be happy.  Happiness doesn't come from faith.  At the risk of sounded cliche, happiness comes from you and how you choose to perceive the world.  We create our own realities.

And for the record, everything is logical.


on Oct. 28 2010 at 3:57 pm
Dragonscribe BRONZE, West Lafayette, Indiana
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Favorite Quote:
&quot;A Person&#039;s a Person no Matter how Small&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;A Rose by Any Other Name Would Smell as Sweet&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;God helps those who help themselves&quot;

I'm sorry you feel that way.

on Oct. 28 2010 at 3:57 pm
Dragonscribe BRONZE, West Lafayette, Indiana
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Favorite Quote:
&quot;A Person&#039;s a Person no Matter how Small&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;A Rose by Any Other Name Would Smell as Sweet&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;God helps those who help themselves&quot;

I'm going to pray for you.

on Oct. 28 2010 at 3:56 pm
Dragonscribe BRONZE, West Lafayette, Indiana
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Favorite Quote:
&quot;A Person&#039;s a Person no Matter how Small&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;A Rose by Any Other Name Would Smell as Sweet&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;God helps those who help themselves&quot;

"My love and I simply love each other - that is all it is, and for me that is all it needs to be". So, 'I like you' and 'you're pretty' are good enough? I believe love is deep, pure, and has roots in the most brilliant thing known to the universe - God. Try finding Him.

on Oct. 28 2010 at 3:55 pm
GodsStudent BRONZE, Abc, Other
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You nailed it :)

on Oct. 28 2010 at 3:55 pm
Dragonscribe BRONZE, West Lafayette, Indiana
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Favorite Quote:
&quot;A Person&#039;s a Person no Matter how Small&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;A Rose by Any Other Name Would Smell as Sweet&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;God helps those who help themselves&quot;

I am sorry you feel that way, because it means that you aren't noticing the amazing amount of love God is beaming to you all the time. Try and see it, I swear it'll make you happier.

on Oct. 28 2010 at 3:53 pm
Dragonscribe BRONZE, West Lafayette, Indiana
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Favorite Quote:
&quot;A Person&#039;s a Person no Matter how Small&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;A Rose by Any Other Name Would Smell as Sweet&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;God helps those who help themselves&quot;

I think when people want to put a quick remark on an article, spelling is not an issue. I personally do it correctly because it annoys me, but there is nothing wrong with typing rapidly and missing a couple of keys. I think you guys should cool it because misspelling is not going to ruin your life.

on Oct. 28 2010 at 3:50 pm
Dragonscribe BRONZE, West Lafayette, Indiana
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Favorite Quote:
&quot;A Person&#039;s a Person no Matter how Small&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;A Rose by Any Other Name Would Smell as Sweet&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;God helps those who help themselves&quot;

In response to writinlikecrazy - yes, you do need a faith to be happy. You may not realize it now, but you will later. The happiness we experience on Earth is nothing in comparison to that in Heaven. Your faith is what will bring you true happiness.

on Oct. 28 2010 at 3:46 pm
Dragonscribe BRONZE, West Lafayette, Indiana
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Favorite Quote:
&quot;A Person&#039;s a Person no Matter how Small&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;A Rose by Any Other Name Would Smell as Sweet&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;God helps those who help themselves&quot;

I do not understand why the specifics in how the world was created are so important. Gas? The Big Bang? God made us, and if that doesn't convince you, it's because you don't have faith. Faith takes the place of a lot of logical things, because some things just cannot be logical.

on Oct. 28 2010 at 3:44 pm
Dragonscribe BRONZE, West Lafayette, Indiana
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Favorite Quote:
&quot;A Person&#039;s a Person no Matter how Small&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;A Rose by Any Other Name Would Smell as Sweet&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;God helps those who help themselves&quot;

He does say he exists. Ever heard of miracles? Try looking for them. If you really want to believe, and you have faith, He will show in Himself - in some way. And I'm not just saying this.

on Oct. 28 2010 at 3:41 pm
Dragonscribe BRONZE, West Lafayette, Indiana
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Favorite Quote:
&quot;A Person&#039;s a Person no Matter how Small&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;A Rose by Any Other Name Would Smell as Sweet&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;God helps those who help themselves&quot;

Religious people who pray for atheists aren't doing it to make them mad - they do it because they want you to understand what you are missing in your life. I'm sorry if you don't believe in God, but God believes in you.

on Oct. 28 2010 at 3:39 pm
Dragonscribe BRONZE, West Lafayette, Indiana
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Favorite Quote:
&quot;A Person&#039;s a Person no Matter how Small&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;A Rose by Any Other Name Would Smell as Sweet&quot;<br /> and<br /> &quot;God helps those who help themselves&quot;

I am so sorry you feel this way, and I just have to say this: not all religious people believe in fate - that life is predestined. I, for one, believe God made us and has the power to control every little thing in our lives but instead gives us free will. This way, we are living our own lives and making our choices, even if God guides and helps us where we need it. I hope you reconsider, and realize there is something missing in your life.

on Oct. 28 2010 at 10:41 am
boston418 SILVER, Weymouth, Massachusetts
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Favorite Quote:
&quot;He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose.&quot; -Jim Eliot

writinlikecrazy- where did the gas and the heat come from?  either they came from nothing or they came from something.....

on Oct. 28 2010 at 10:38 am
boston418 SILVER, Weymouth, Massachusetts
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Favorite Quote:
&quot;He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose.&quot; -Jim Eliot

"Who will ever know what the truth really is?"

There's a difference between saying the truth can't be known and that, if there is truly a God, he doesn't exist.  What if he does exist and you just don't know it?

My challenge to your atheism is this: where did the first speck of matter come from?  Either there was nothing, and then there was something, which would cancel the laws of science that you are using as a reference point to judge everything else, or there was something eternal from which everything else sprung off, which does not violate a law of science, but rather promotes the tenets of time and space.  And if there is something eternal and we have all sprung from that eternal thing, then it is also authoritative over us.  While we can create our own ideas and values, we did not physically create ourselves, we are a product of scientific consistencies in the universe, but the belief that there is no eternal God rejects these consistencies.

How does atheism answer to this?


on Oct. 28 2010 at 8:20 am
blackveilbrideschickies BRONZE, Brackenridge, Pennsylvania
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Beautiful article. You have many good points in it. Im too an atheist so I know where you are coming from

on Oct. 28 2010 at 2:16 am
Destinee BRONZE, Oakville, Other
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Favorite Quote:
Blegh. - Abraham Lincoln

I know that atheists hate it when people "look down" upon them, but I feel incredibly sorry for this girl. She's obviously smart, but what's the use in being smart if it's veered in the wrong direction?

 

(Very well-written article, by the way.)


on Oct. 24 2010 at 9:39 pm
ElizabethY. BRONZE, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
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Favorite Quote:
\\\&quot;You must stay drunk on writing so reality will not destroy you.\\\&quot;

Couldn't have said it better myself, Sarah. :)

Redbull12 said...
on Oct. 21 2010 at 7:49 am
Shelby.L2013---God doesn't have to show himself. That would defeat the purpous of faith. Faith is believing and trusting without seeing.

Redbull12 said...
on Oct. 21 2010 at 7:46 am
I'm very strong in my faith and although i believe youre intentions were not to bash on religion. I took some of the things you said offensively. Its opinion so its all alright but heres my response. Its terrible that you think that people believe in God because we think life is crazy and need guidance. It's even worse that you think that we believe because we dont want to take responsibility for life's burdens. Thats not what faith is all about not in the least. Its about the sacrafice of the Son and the love and life it forever created. I hope and pray along with others that doors open for you and maybe you can see both sides more clearly.

on Oct. 16 2010 at 2:29 pm
spiritualrevelationrevealspainandrevolution PLATINUM, Eugene, Oregon
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or crusades, or using the were christian and your not excuse when we invaded america, africa, india, and slews of other countries, and massacred raped and infected foreign people in a superiority of religion excuse